The Sex with the Ex

Kiss me softly, kiss me gently, kiss me just right.  Run your hands down my chest and over my stomach and wrap around my big booty.  Smack it one good time.  Now get on your knees and take all of me into your mouth...inch by inch...

Hey kids!

You ever have those times when the sex is so freaking good you can go several days and up to a week without even feeling the urge to sleep with someone else?  Well that's what happened to me this week.  My 30th birthday was Monday (please no old jokes...lol) and I was trying to avoid hooking up with anyone and it's funny that I had several offers pop up out of no where including a threesome, when my sex life as of late is usually not that eventful.  Well this one guy who always happens to text me at the wrong time (the right time) without fail does it again the other day.  I was home trying to enjoy a mental health day from work.  He texts me wanting to come over just for sex.  I already told him no earlier that morning but I guess in this early afternoon he wasn't taking no for an answer.  And I was too vulnerable to say no.  So I agreed.  He came over we took a shower and then we moved things to the bedroom and I will stop there.  It was good, I mean really good.  And I'm pissed!

What pisses me off is that it was with my ex-boyfriend, Fernando (not his real name).  We broke up in June 2011 after being together for 2 years.  It was one of those situations were you just knew it just wasn't going to work out and this was not the person you are meant to be with.  So we both agreed it was time to end things.  There was no drama, no name calling and not a whole bunch of mess.  Just two adults who maturely agreed it was time to move on.  Well...we have moved on (time heals the broken-hearted) but we have not moved on from wanting to have sex with each other.  I keep trying to stay strong and resist him but when he starts being aggressive and speaking that spanish (2 years with me, so of course he knows how to turn me on) there is just no resisting when I'm in "that" place...lol

But during this last time we were together I couldn't help but wonder why the sex wasn't this good when we were together?  Why did we allow the sexual intimacy of our relationship dwindle down and die.  

*side bar* the last three months we were together were sexless!

But I love it when I have good sex.  It curbs my very strong and high sexual appetite for awhile.  Tonight I'm suppose to meet these guys for a threesome but I'm just not in the mood anymore...my appetite is still curbed! Damn you Fernando!!

So I have to ask...what does good sex do for you?