The "Sleep Over"

Hey Kids!

Ok so I know that when I turned 30 that the things I use to do in my 20s I would no longer do in my 30s (well some things).  Let me tell you what happened last night.  So for a bday gift one of my friends in Atlanta decided to hook me up with someone they felt I would like and who would like me, who they know that lives here in Houston.  So I reluctantly agreed to meet this guy.  Well first off we have two completely different schedules.  He works evenings and weekends, I am a M-F 8-5 guy.  So we finally agreed on a time and it was Saturday evening. Now usually I would take that to mean like 9 or 10pm...because after chit chatting with him during the week I pretty much figured that this will be nothing more than a hook-up.  But the dude didn't show up until like 1am!!!!

So we met and ended up having a sexual attraction to each other and so we ended up hooking up.  The sex was very good.  And as par the usual after we got off and cleaned up I was readying myself to escort him out of my apartment.  But he got back in my bed and asked me to set my alarm!  WTF!!!! I conceded and set my alarm and got back in bed as well.  Needless to say I couldn't sleep and I couldn't stop thinking about what just happened "Set my alarm" that was definitely a first.

In my 20s I would not have cared that he showed up at 1am.  And there would have definitely not been any sleeping over!

So I have to ask is this what's suppose to happen in my 30s? When I hook up with someone will I no longer get off and put them (or myself) out?