Hey Kids!!
So I had a date for the first time in two years back in October. I met this guy on Growlr and we hit it off. We immediately shared interests in hobbies, sports and in some cases other guys we thought were hot lol. Well we decided to meet for a drink and some video games at Dave and Busters one night. It went well and I enjoyed myself and was pleasantly surprised that he was even cuter in person than his pictures. We ended the night with a hand shake and went our separate ways. So after a successful meet and greet I decided that we should have a real date. So I asked him if he'd like to go on a date that following Friday. He said "yes, I was hoping you'd ask" So we made plans to meet for dinner and a movie. Well on the way to the date I got in my car accident. I texted him to let him know I had gotten in a wreck. Now I was expecting him to say something like "oh ok well let me know it turns out ttyl." you know something on those lines. BUT he wanted to meet me at the wreck scene and offer to give me a ride home. To me that says "this is a nice guy." So he came and I dealt with the police and the other person involved with the wreck. Our original date plans were messed up but he still wanted to take me to get something to eat and have some drinks. So we went to a nice place close to my home and had some drinks, food and good conversation. He was really making me feel better about the whole wreck thing. So after we left he took me home and I invited him inside for a drink and to watch Sports Center (something we both enjoy). Now you know to hot horny men can't be alone late at night without jumping on top of each other...lol...and that's what we did. The kissing was great his body felt good and I could tell he was extremely attracted to me as much as I was him so what could go wrong? Well the sex was not good! I mean NO BUENO! He did this dry humping thing on top of me like he was riding me like and I immediately thought I was back in high school with some drink cheerleader who was afraid to have sex because of disappointing the Lord.
He didn't even bust. He made sure I busted, which is usually a good thing but the way it happened was again NO BUENO! Now usually that's a deal breaker for me...but I decided I needed to give it another shot to make sure it wasn't anything I was doing wrong. So we met again a week later at my place to watch the Texans game and ended going to have lunch and we spent the whole afternoon together. We did fool around and all and he came this time but again it was just ok. And I don't have or do "OK" sex! Yeah I know that sounds very Ricky like from "Noah's Arc" but if you've ever had sex with me you know I'm telling the truth. So eventually we stopped talking.
I just hate that the first guy I took an interest in getting to know other than just a hookup ended with a car accident and whack sex. And folks keep in mind my idea of whack sex is probably good sex to other people so don't think I'm speaking poorly about this guy. I just know that it wouldn't of worked out because of the sex. When I'm with someone I want to be with that person and only that person and one of the ways that happens is if certain things are place to keep my attention on him and our relationship and one of the things that does that is good sex. Great sex will get you a mink in the morning ;-)
So I gotta ask...Is bad sex a deal break for you?
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