The Side Chick

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Hey Kids!

I'm in a bit of a mood today.  Now before you fussy gays, straight girls and occasional "I got lost surfing the web" straight guys try to go in on me, let me come clean...yes, at one point I was an unknowing Side Chick to someone I was completely into.  I mean I would of dropped out of school, moved to the country and lived in a trailer if he asked me too.  Well ok let's be real, I wouldn't live in a trailer but the man had me whipped.  He was cute, had swag, an incredible suckable cock and he made me laugh.  I know that doesn't sound like much for me to be ready to turn into a hill billy...but what can I say?  For a nerd like me he was just right!  And how we met kinda of added to my attraction of him as well.  It was on the first day of the class we had together during my junior year in undergrad.

I had just gotten back from Hong Kong the night before so I was still jet lagged and arrived to class late.  I remember running into the room and apologizing to my professor and I could see this man looking straight at me ginning the entire time I was talking.  The professor was one of those hard asses so he dismissed me and told me not to be late to his class again and to have a seat.  As I was looking for a seat I see him, "Ricky", moving his stuff out of the seat beside him and motioning me to come sit next to him.  That was the start of our love affair.  I was so charmed by him and intrigued.  I couldn't tell if he was flirting with me or being nice to me because he wanted me to help him with his homework.  Hell I couldn't even tell if he was gay or not.  I had NO GAYDAR back then...lol...But whatever he was doing he KNEW what he was doing.  Anyway cut to him giving me a ride home one night from class and making his move.  That kiss changed everything for me.

There would be lots of times I'd get called to come meet him somewhere or he'd want to come to my dorm room.  And we would laugh and flirt during class instead of paying attention to the professor, which I didn't need to do because I already knew everything he was teaching us.  Yeah things were great.  But I didn't connect the pieces until it was too late.  You see kids when you're a side piece there will always be pieces of information for you to connect.  You can either choose to connect them or ignore but they are there.  You see I was 20 and I didn't know what a side chick was or that I was one.  BUT I damn sure learned.

Turns out Ricky had a live in boyfriend, a girlfriend and me as his young side chick that would suck his cock whenever he snapped his fingers.  Again, I was young dumb and didn't connect those pieces.

Every time I think of that experience it makes me shake my head and thank God I am wiser now, right?  Well I thought I was but good dick (yes I had to use dick that time) will make you do some crazy things and cause you to be blind as well.  I'm a firm believer that as men we make time for the things we really want to do.  That includes seeing people we really want to see.  I realized today that I have fallen prey to that deadly predator...GOOD DICK...once again.  The man I'd like to be sexual with tonight has caused me to start connecting those pieces.  Too bad for him I'm not an idiot.  Then he would be able to keep up his facade.  I'm not upset or anything just a little disappointed.  I mean I wasn't trying to date him or anything I just wanted that dick...that's all.  I told him that...and was up front.  Why is it when you are upfront and honest with people they still feel the need to lie?

So I've got to ask...when was the last time you had to connect the pieces?